Khushbu talks about child abuse by father

CHENNAI (ANI) – Actress-turned-politician Khushbu Sundar has shared her harrowing experiences of abuse at the hands of her father and discussed the Hema Commission report that exposed widespread sexual exploitation, illegal bans and inhuman working conditions in the Malayalam film industry.

The 235-page Hema Commission report, released after redacting the names of witnesses and accused, found that the Malayalam film industry is controlled by about 10 to 15 male producers, directors and actors who dominate and influence the industry.

In her post, Khushbu reflected on her past and the impact of her father’s abuse, and explained why she had delayed speaking out about it. “As a woman and a mother, the wounds inflicted by such violence cut deep, not just in the flesh but in the soul. These atrocities shake the foundations of our trust, love and strength,” she said. She added: “Some ask me why it took me so long to speak out about my father’s abuse. I agree that I should have spoken out sooner. But what happened to me was not a compromise to build my career. I was abused by the person who should have given me the strongest arms to hold me when I fell.”

On August 19, a redacted version of the Justice Hema Committee report on harassment of women in the Malayalam film industry was made public. Khushbu lauded the women who stood strong in the face of abuse and expressed her support for the victims. However, she questioned whether the committee’s findings would be enough to bring about real change. “This moment when #MeToo is sweeping through our industry is a tearing moment. Kudos to the women who stood their ground and emerged victorious. The #HemaCommittee was much needed to put a stop to the abuse. But will it?”

Reflecting on conversations with her daughters, Khushbu shared, “I had a long conversation with my 24-year-old and 21-year-old daughters on this issue. I was amazed by their empathy and understanding for the victims. They are steadfast in their support and standing by them on this issue.”

Khushbu urged victims to speak out, stressing that doing so would benefit both the healing process and the investigation. “It doesn’t matter if you speak today or tomorrow, just speak out,” she said. She also called for empathy for victims, stressing that not everyone is in a position to speak out right away. “When we ask why she didn’t come out earlier, we have to consider her circumstances — not everyone has the privilege to speak out,” she added.

In a call to action, Khushbu urged men to show solidarity with victims and stressed that supporting and respecting women should be universal. “To all the men out there, I implore you to stand by the victim and show your unwavering support. Every man was born of a woman who endured incredible pain and sacrifice,” she said.

Khushbu also stressed the need for change, encouraging women to stand up for themselves and reject any compromise on their dignity. “This should be a wake-up call to EVERYONE. Let the exploitation stop here. Women, come out and speak up. Remember that you always have a choice in life. Your NO is a NO. Never compromise or compromise on your dignity and respectability. NEVER. I stand with all the women who have been through this.”